– I didn’t want, it happened by accident, by chance! – Kid says and gets parent’s forgiveness. That’s nothing. At least it looks like the right thing. But is it really good reason to forget accident with no more talking? What do you think? What property do you build in growing conciseness? What’s the basic idea could be seeded?
That’s very simple to see. In reality you gave your kid permission not to pay attention. Even more – you authorized your kid not to pay attention, allowed to stay not aware… This anchor will be stronger and stronger just because you sometimes will not avoid teaching a little bit of creating consciously and purposely.
I’m not going to talk about the training itself, so that those who will come after me, have as mysterious and interesting as it was for me, I will talk about my sensations.
After the training the whole group and not only me felt that our opportunities are limitless or at least certainly for a lot broader than we thought before of themselves.It feels like just a gift, after it desire and strength to change my life and follow it further and higher come into sight.
We were taught to listen to ourselves, to our feelings, and most importantly – trust them (we were validating them in practice with great surprise during the training).
In other words, the training has freed us from the estimates and mistrust of ourselves, that usually hold back our growth and development.
And something funny, all four days of training, I had a feeling that I am in class at Hogwarts, at the school where Harry Potter learns.
Is it clear that the world of good mood is different from the world of shitty feelings? OK. So you change your mood and the world becomes different. This is the art of choosing living. This art is not easy. It’s like building Pyramids.
This technique is free of spirituality. Nevertheless, everyone can find here something. Everyone free to understand anything in one’s own way for sure. This is psycho technique to find some stability in fickle world. It is the footing and you may call it «the crutch», after all you live – you go through life.. Yes, the master of this psycho technique may enter through this door into some traditional teaching. One will find something familiar when start practice QiGong, or Vipassana, or Fourth Way, or teaching of Don Juan, or Raja Yoga. To find yourself calm within the shifty-shitty stream of daily life, to dwell in peace with own emotional storm is good enough, isn’t it?
Throw away any books about healthy and tasty sex. Fuck advice on how to fuck a chick or get married. There are only two rules in relationships that really work. They are suitable for both men and women. And those who do not know they are doomed to waste time and nerves on the wrong people. Rule one. Relationships should be easy It should be easy from the very beginning. From the first minutes. A person with whom you immediately feel like old acquaintances suits you more than someone who needs to be courted for years. The guy with whom you are ready to retire in the toilet of the mall in fifteen minutes is better than the one to whom you have been writing letters without an answer for seven years. A girl who immediately shows interest in you is better than an unapproachable beauty who needs to be taken to the Bahamas. Simple is good. Difficult means bad. This is an axiom. No need to prove it. In general, you do not need to prove anything in a relationship at your own expense. You don’t have to strive for anyone, adapt to anyone and run after anyone. Having done this once, you will do it every day, and in response you will only see a capricious displeased face. If it did not work out right away, did not catch fire, did not light up, do not pull the cat by the tail. So not your man. Difficult relationships are only suitable for those who are bored and have a lot of free time. For everyone else, this suffering only spoils the nerves. You should not take out a difficult relationship with yourself. A relationship in which all you do is a dance to someone’s tune is humiliating. Sooner or later, the limit of your patience will run out. Don’t let yourself get sucked into a difficult relationship. The second rule, but no less important for this. Relationships should be fun. This statement also needs no proof. As soon as the relationship has ceased to bring joy, and began to bring nasty things, stop this phenomenon in the bud. Do not get used to showdowns, tears and smashing dishes. Leave long conversations, accusations, recriminations. This not normal! This is the road to hell! As soon as joy leaves the relationship – they become useless. It would seem much easier. But after all, many people chew the chewed-chewed hay of their grievances for years! They occupy their brains with unnecessary disassembly! Do not do this! As soon as you understand that your words are taking away joy – close your mouth. Disassembly begins – leave. The person only wants to blame and reproach – do not let the guilt plant on you. Go away! Relationships are for joy. All other relationships “for the sake of children”, “because everyone lives like this”, “out of habit”, “because without it, it’s even worse” can simply be taken and taken to the trash heap. Author: Morena Morana