– I didn’t want, it happened by accident, by chance! – Kid says and gets parent’s forgiveness. That’s nothing. At least it looks like the right thing. But is it really good reason to forget accident with no more talking? What do you think? What property do you build in growing conciseness? What’s the basic idea could be seeded?
That’s very simple to see. In reality you gave your kid permission not to pay attention. Even more – you authorized your kid not to pay attention, allowed to stay not aware… This anchor will be stronger and stronger just because you sometimes will not avoid teaching a little bit of creating consciously and purposely.